Dating younger women has many benefits for older guys. Cam has dated older women and young chicks – online and offline – and the verdict is: dating young chicks is way better.
Some argue that dating younger women means dealing with immature girls who have no idea about life. In some cases, this is true. However, if you are choosy and look for girls with a broad world outlook, who are well-read and take an interest in things other than their own appearance, you are onto a winning strategy.
For example, Cam has recently been dating a younger woman who fits all of the above criteria. Like most modern women, she is also into current fashion trends and doesn’t live in the past, like a lot of older women. If you, as a mature man, also keep abreast of modern cultural references (i.e. music, movies, books, Internet etc), then you will have a much better connection with your young girlfriend.
Benefits of dating a younger woman
Here are five benefits you will get from deciding to date younger girls.
1. Your health will improve
Not only will your physical health improve, so will your mental health. Walking down the street with a pretty young woman on your arm is a massive boost to any guy’s ego.
2. You will save money
By dating young females, you will actually save money. They are easier to please and don’t (usually) require that you outlay hundreds of dollars just to go out on a date. They are happy with your company, sexual experience and intelligent conversation.
3. Better sex
Some will disagree, but Cam’s experience shows that younger women are more eager to please their older men in bed. If they are inexperienced in sex, then you have a great opportunity to teach them. Hopefully, you have acquired some experience over the years, and you will be surprised to find that young chicks will let you guide them through the process. Not only that, but younger girls have been brought up on a diet of Internet porn and are more likely to let you come on their faces, for example, than will fuddy-duddy old broads.
4. Longer relationships
If you treat your young girlfriend well, she is more likely to stick around than is an older woman. Let’s face it, older ladies are like you – looking for younger members of the opposite sex.
5. Less jealousy on her part
Dating younger women means they are less likely to get jealous of you hooking up with other women. Let’s face it – you’re an old geezer! If your young date is attractive, though, you may be the one with jealousy issues. But be reassured, Cam’s sex experience with seducing and going out with young birds tells him they will be true if you give them plenty of attention and hot sex.
However, make sure your younger woman is dating you for the right reasons, and be sure that it is sustainable. Unless you are just after a short-term bit of fun to boost your ego. And that’s cool too, as long as no-ones emotions end up being scarred.
Dating a young girl with daddy isssues
Dating a woman with daddy issues can be a bit of a challenge. This phenomenon rarely affects men in their early twenties, but even in your early to mid-thirties, guys, there is a chance that a girl will see some kind of father figure in you.
Women who are seeking a father figure will go for guys at least 15 years older than them – sometimes finding themselves attracted to men so much older than them that you might even want to call it granddaddy issues!
There is nothing wrong with dating younger women – even much younger women. I’ve covered this topic elsewhere, but not much from the girl’s point of view.
Why do women date a much older man?
Usually, women have several reasons for seeking an older man to go out with. Let’s look at a few of them.
Replacement father
Sometimes a girl has deep-seeded longings for her man to be a replacement for her father. This is the real “dating a girl with daddy issues” scenario. The main reason for this is that she either had such a great relationship with her dad, that only a man who resembles him in some way will be good enough. This could be a physical resemblance, or some other similarity such as your profession, background, even they way you speak. On the other hand, the younger woman you are dating may have the complete opposite scenario – she had no father around when she was little and craves someone to fill that void in her mature years.
Status symbol
If you are a wealthy and successful guy, your age could be but a minor factor when a younger chick decides she wants to be with you. She may be happy to cruise around with an older dude just so she can reap the rewards of your hard work. If you think your chick fits this category, be careful – she might be looking for sex with younger dudes elsewhere.
Sexual experience
Lots of younger women are dissatisfied with the fumbling attempts at sex they encounter with guys their own age. Or maybe these young men are so influenced by porn that they have no idea what a real woman wants in bed. These younger women love the confidence and experience that an older man can bring to keep them satisfied in a sexual way.
Security
Younger women will latch onto an older man out of a sense that the more mature gentlemen can provide them with the security and, most importantly, dependability that younger guys cannot offer.
If you sense that you are dating a younger woman who sees you as a father figure, ask her the reasons for this and see what category she fits into. Critically, if she really loves you and the sex is hot, does it really matter?
How to Seduce Younger Women
Wanna know how to seduce younger women? Then listen up – it isn’t hard. But your cock will be once you know a few tips for hooking up with young women.
Firstly, you need to know that young women really value and appreciate the skill, experience and maturity of an older man. This doesn’t apply across the board, however there are plenty of young chicks that get off on the practised hands of a more mature guy.
1. Learn what girls are into.
In order to seduce younger women, it’s important to have an interest in modern culture. If you are stuck in a time warp and expect your young dates to be into Elvis and the Beatles, guess again. If you cannot bring yourself to learn about current music and movies, then you will have very little to talk about. Occasionally, you might meet some retro babe who is into daggy rock n’ roll etc, but this is rare.
2. Go for educated younger women
Girls with degrees or at least some form of higher education are more likely to be interested in older men with experience of the world. They also have a broader range of knowledge for conversations.
3. Get fit
Seriously, men, if you want to know how to seduce younger women, then you need to be fit. Women these days want and demand sex, so you have to be physically capable of satisfying their needs. That doesn’t mean you need to have rippling abs and bulging biceps, but the ability to perform sexually for more that a few minutes is a highly valued quality.
4. Don’t hurry sex
Seducing young women requires that you put a lot of effort into getting them off. Concentrate on their bodies before you think of getting your own shot away. Long and steamy sessions of oral sex will ensure that your girl is turned on enough to return the favour and make you happy in bed.
5. Don’t dress like an old fart
Cardigans and sandals are a sure-fire way to turn young women off. Dress appropriately for your age without being too old-fashioned. In other words, nice shirts and pants rather than ripped t-shirts and tight leather trousers. Also, middle-aged men sporting earrings can look a bit like they are trying to be younger than they are. Tattoos, on the other hand, can be very attractive for lots of young women, so get a few manly tattoos if you don’t already have them.
So, there you have it. Five great dating tips on how to seduce younger women!